Don't listen to what they say, look at what they do; don't listen to what they say, look at where their money goes.
There is a world that people think is the world, and there is the real world; what you see and understand is just a little bit, and it may all be an illusion.
So never stick to your own opinions, because what most people in their twenties see is an illusion, because there are things that are not consistent with what they say that they don't let you see.
Don't reject or dislike things, try to understand them, and gradually you will find more happiness.
It may be a bit chaotic, a bit torn, but this is real; it is much more real than the reality that is embellished, be true to yourself, and you will be happier. Life is not always smooth, it is mostly full of disappointments, accept reality, and know that change doesn't happen overnight.